I was confronted today by one of my clients when she saw my wedding ring. “You’re married?! I didn’t think you were old enough to be married!” Which I responded with. “Yes, I have a one year old, as well.” She then proceeded to lecture me on how I was in my 20’s and my 20’s needed to be about me… going out, drinking, and “having fun”. That now, I’m “tied down”, with a baby and have no time to “grow into my own skin.” and that she “feels for me”. These are her actual words.. At first I just sat there… What do you say to that? I’m at work.. and she’s a client, so “mind your own business” just doesn’t seem appropriate… And this isn’t the first time I’ve heard anything like this.. So let me just clear my own air here…

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